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SOMETIMES MY MOMMY GETS ANGRY By Bebe Moore Campbell (1022 hits)


This continues to be a great book for children of parents struggling with a mental illness.

When parents face difficult days due to a mental illness, their children will undoubtedly face difficult days with them. The behaviors of the parents will spill over to the child. This can result in children being behavior problems in the classroom and in the community to name a few.

Learning coping strategies for a mentally ill parent is even harder when you consider the stigma. No child wants anybody to know that his or her parent is "crazy." Thus, the mental illness becomes the dark secret as the child is silenced.

If you take that same family and lead them to supports and services beginning with the parent with the mental illness, that entire family can survive the parent's mental illness. They can support each other and thrive as a unit.

When the mental illness results in physical abuse or emotional abuse or substance abuse, that child is being taught to mimic the behaviors of the adults in the house. That becomes a generational problem for society to struggle with don't you think?

Today, many children tip-toe around parents with mental illnesses and in this book, "Sometimes My Mommy Gets Angry," Bebe Moore Campbell brings the issue right to the dinner table. Everybody can learn from this book and if there are children involved, it is a good companion for them to learn coping strategies as well.

Bless a child whose parent suffers from a mental illness with this book written by a woman who lived with a mental illness while raising children. Children are our future. If we teach them about coping skills and treatment, they grow up to be adults educated about mental illness and will break the cycle of shame, embarassment, and denial. If they fall into the category of having a mental illness themselves, they will seek treatment.

Other issues in our community can be addressed and decreased by helping a child with a parent having a mental illness. These include Teen s*x, Suicide, Depression, Gang Affiliation, Domestic Violence, s*xual Abuse, Drug/Alcohol Use, and Poor Academic Performance

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Just today, I was speaking with on of my girlfriends and she was telling me about her sister who always seems to be up and down with her mood. Now I am afraid that the undiagnosed mental illeness that my friend's sister has has also been passed on to her children. Currently the woman's 13 year old is being treated at an acute care hospital's pediactric mental health unit. Apparently from my friend's account, this sister has been up and down since they were children. As my friend put it...her sister has been a drama queen since they were children.

I think it is sad, because the children of people with undiagnosed mental illnesses often are the people who suffer. The cycle needs to be broken so that we don't pass these poor behaviors and poor coping mechanisms from generation to generation. Why can't we just get help Agnes in order that we can live fullfilling lives? I know the answer, but I am just frustrated.

Monday, October 6th 2008 at 5:35PM
Jen Fad
So am I! I learned that a cousin who died last spring was a month away from being diagnosed with a mental illness. I am floored at how her family kept that a secret when we have so many professionals in the family. I believe it would have made a difference in her being alive today because she would hae had a better quality of life with treatment. Now her three young daughters must grow up without a mother. ALL three of them have gained sooo much weight since their mother's death and my aunt sees nothing wrong with that.

We must pray and keep talking about it. My friend told me once that this was like AIDS/HIV when it first hit. Nobody was ready to open up about it and now it is 25 years later and it's open topic.

I refuse to count the yers....

I have to be honest that I was jealous with all the pink around and about over breast cancer. Silver is the color for mental health. Did you know that? Seen any silver ribbons around lately!?
Monday, October 6th 2008 at 8:03PM
agnes levine
I can't say that I have seen any silver ribbons around for mental health awareness. It is sad, isn't it? I just hope that one day we will get it together.
Friday, October 10th 2008 at 10:39AM
Jen Fad
Les', we be forgotten...
Saturday, October 11th 2008 at 8:29PM
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